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Selecting a Wedding Planner
By Linda L. Moore
Wedding Planners also referred to as wedding consultants, or
bridal consultants, provide you with the peace of mind relieving you of
the stress and worry of the last minute details knowing your wedding will
be a memorable occasion, and enables you to have more free time to enjoy
the pre-wedding parties in your honor.
The services wedding planners offer are customized for each
couple and their individual wedding. Couples meet with a consultant
advising of their budget, number of guests, and their dream or vision of
an ideal wedding, even if only at the planning stage. The consultant can
assist with developing the budget, setting the limit on the number of
guests and planning the theme and style of the wedding if desired, based on
the personal tastes of the couple. It is the couple´s wedding, and they
have the final say, the consultant´s role is to offer guidance not
permission. The relationship must be built on trust and mutual respect.
It is acceptable to interview up to three consultants to determine the best
match for you.
Depending on the needs of the couple, the consultant will make
recommendations regarding the various vendors such as reception facilities,
ceremony locations, officiants, florists, photographers, and can further
assist in researching their licenses, insurance providers, and history with
prior customers. Further assistance can be provided with the negotiations
of the contracts and/or review of the contracts before signing to ensure
all the required conditions are met. Assist with the selection of the
gifts for the attendants, and the appropriate etiquette.
At the couples request, the consultant will track the guest
list response; be a mediator for minor disputes - remembering it is the
couples day, no matter who is paying for the wedding; create a timeline
for the activities leading up to the wedding day, and of the wedding day.
Design or assist in the design of the menu, favours, place cards, and or
wedding programs. Coordinate the engagement party, rehearsal party,
newspaper announcements, the rehearsal, tours of the area for
out-of-town guests.
The day of the wedding: depending on the size of the wedding,
wedding consultants offer one or two directors to be on site, on the
wedding day. They will supervise the vendors, cue the music, the ceremony,
ensure all your requests have been met, bouquets and boutonnières have been
distributed, distribute the vendors payments and gratuities, coordinate the
direction of the gifts, coordinate the flowers from the ceremony to the
hall, seat all late arrivals in a discreet manner and have an emergency kit
on hand.
The cost of a wedding planner is part of the wedding budget
and not in addition to the budget. The pricing varies based on the needs
of the couple. When engaging a consultant for partial services on an
hourly rate, fifty dollars an hour is the normal rate.
In conclusion, choosing a wedding planner can be beneficial
to any bridal couple, as it will allow them more time to enjoy this
wondrous time, and give them peace of mind during this stressful but
exciting time.
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